Elizaveta Friesem
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          • Problem/solution binary
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          • Reality
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          • Science, religion and art
          • Self-awareness and empathy of higher order
          • Self-awareness
          • Self-empathy
          • Subjectivity and objectivity
          • Suggested citation format
          • Synesthesia
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          • "The Death of the Author"
          • The importance of having a purpose
          • Truth
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          • Understanding ourselves
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          • Verbal vs. nonverbal communication
          • Violence in the human nature
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          • What is a text?
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          • What will this project become?
          • We hurt others when we are in pain
          • Where do meanings come from?
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          • Why do people hurt each other?
          • Why is language so unhelpful?
          • Why do everyday objects make sense?
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********************* LIST OF COMPLETED PAGES ***********************

This is an experimental project, a hypertext book-in-progress meant to reflect my never-ending quest to understand myself and other people. It is based on the idea that, because human thinking is nonlinear, it can be best captured in the nonsequential form.

I will use this project to explore some philosophical questions: "How do we see the world around us and why?", "What is our existence about?". My quest will be also guided by more practical concerns: "Why do people hurt each other?", "Why do misunderstandings happen?" and "How can we collaborate across divides?". Finally, on a more selfish level, I want to use this hypertext to help myself navigate life's uncertainties and challenges. I hope my readers will understand me. After all, each person wonders once in a while "What's the point?", and no one wants their life to be meaningless.

In a way, I embarked on this journey to stay sane. This experimental book is going to be my creative outlet, something that I can share with the world as I am doing it. It’s a curious way to combat my own perfectionism. The second - though no less important - reason for starting this project is to develop and promote my scholarship. For this purpose, the book is based on the rhizomatic method proposed by postmodern philosophers Deleuze and Guattari.

This project was launched in February 2021. It may remain in the state of becoming for a while (likely years), as my plan for its content and form implies. Whenever you revisit this site, you will find something new. I am not planning to delete old content, although I will be editing existing pages to make my writing more complete and compelling. Meanwhile, the book will be constantly expanding in multiple directions through additional links and interconnected pages. Despite the unusual format, I hope to see this book cited by future readers.

As it goes with hypertext books, you can click the links on this and any other page to see where they will lead you. Most links will take you to different parts of this book, but some will serve to connect the project to other texts on the World Wide Web.

CAVEAT: Even as the number of completed entries is growing, there will always be plenty of pages containing disorganized notes for future entries. Some pages may just have the link to the Start page (the one you are currently on). Realizing that my readers won't enjoy stumbling around links that lead to pages in progress, I have created a list of completed entries. Finally, in case you would like to see a list of all the pages that I have started so far, you can take a look here.

If you want to chat with me about any of this, feel free to reach out!

  • About
  • Books
    • Media is us >
      • Principles of communication
      • Micro- and macropower
      • ACE model
      • Description of chapters
      • When conflicts get out of control
    • Hypertexts >
      • Me, looking for meaning >
        • A >
          • Anxiety
          • Am I strong or am I weak?
        • B >
          • Binaries
          • Both sides
        • C >
          • Can I give myself credit for being empathetic?
          • Choice
          • Circumstances
          • Cognitive biases
          • Common sense
          • Communication
          • Content and form of this book
          • Coronavirus and me
          • Culture
          • Cycle of violence
        • D >
          • Depression
          • Do children ask themselves about the purpose of life?
          • Doing the right thing
        • E >
          • Emotional pain
          • Empathy
          • Empathy as a matter of self-preservation
          • Everybody has their struggles
          • Everybody is connected
          • Explain/excuse conflation
        • F >
          • Feelings and emotions
          • Forgetting about your purpose
          • Free will
        • G >
          • Good vs. Bad
        • H >
          • How much do we understand each other?
          • Human brain
          • Human nature
          • Human needs
          • Human thinking
          • Human thinking is nonlinear
          • Hypertext books
        • I >
          • I am an optimist
          • Ideas
          • "I'll never understand!"
          • Individual meanings vs. shared meanings
          • Inner compass
          • Interpretation
          • "It is what it is"
        • J
        • K >
          • Knowing your true purpose
          • Knowledge
        • L >
          • Language
          • List of completed pages
          • Literal vs. nonliteral communication
        • M >
          • Make Sense
          • May I meet this, too, with kindness
          • Meaning as importance
          • Mean and stupid
          • Meaning
          • Meaningless
          • Meaning wars
          • Meaning of life
          • Meaning communities
          • Meanings perceived by animals
          • Meaning-seeking vs. meaning-making
          • Media
          • (Mis)understanding each other's needs
          • My quest for meaning
        • N >
          • Norms
        • O >
          • Objectification
          • On being a scholar
          • On being a writer
          • On being right
        • P >
          • Paradox
          • Parenting
          • Privilege
          • Polarization
          • Postmodern worldview
          • Postmodern philosophy
          • Power
          • Power to see things in a certain way
          • Problem/solution binary
        • Q
        • R >
          • Reality
          • Rhizome in philosophy
        • S >
          • Science, religion and art
          • Self-awareness and empathy of higher order
          • Self-awareness
          • Self-empathy
          • Subjectivity and objectivity
          • Suggested citation format
          • Synesthesia
        • T >
          • "The Death of the Author"
          • The importance of having a purpose
          • Truth
        • U >
          • Understanding ourselves
          • Us and them
        • V >
          • Verbal vs. nonverbal communication
          • Violence in the human nature
        • W >
          • What does it mean to "understand"?
          • What is a text?
          • What we can learn about ourselves from media
          • What is "natural"?
          • What's the point?
          • What will this project become?
          • We hurt others when we are in pain
          • Where do meanings come from?
          • Why am I trying to stay sane?
          • Why do people hurt each other?
          • Why is language so unhelpful?
          • Why do everyday objects make sense?
          • Why do misunderstandings happen?
        • X
        • Y
        • Z
      • Power of meanings // Meanings of power
      • It's not about "them"
  • Editing
    • Me as your editor
    • How I will help you
    • Pricing
    • Privacy policy
  • Blog
  • Workshops
    • Five (easy) steps to become media literate
    • Surviving the polarization vortex
    • Understanding yourself
    • Not enough
  • Learn more
    • Bio
    • Talks and interviews
    • Essays
    • Poems >
      • Stranger
      • Lonely heart
      • Fairy tales
      • Dreams and nightmares
      • Puzzles
      • Moon
      • Seasons
      • Muse
      • Art
      • Sketches
      • Nonsense
    • Educational materials
  • Contact me